On 成人论坛 One鈥檚 The Traitors, contestants need to bluff everyone around them to win.
But will you be able to spot who鈥檚 pretending on the show?
To learn more about the art of bluffing, 成人论坛 Bitesize spoke to Dr Jacqui McKechnie, senior lecturer in the Department of Psychology at Glasgow Caledonian University. Will she be telling the truth?!
Body language
Let鈥檚 get the bad news out of the way: 鈥淲e aren鈥檛 great at detecting deception,鈥 Jacqui says. 鈥淎t best, we鈥檙e about 52% accurate, 60% if you're very good.鈥
But not all is lost. Over the years, psychologists have come up with what might be considered signs of a person trying to bluff.
To spot these, observing someone鈥檚 body language can be a good start. 鈥淪omeone lying can put their hand up to their mouth - it鈥檚 almost like they try to hide the lie coming out,鈥 explains Jacqui.
鈥淪ometimes people touch their nose and, again, that鈥檚 because they may be getting a bit nervous. Blood comes to their face like a blush and the nose, being so sensitive, tingles a little bit.鈥
Bluffers may avoid eye contact: 鈥淔eeling a bit nervous, they are likely to move their hands about more 鈥 looking down, turning away from the questioner, fiddling with their hair, looking at their clothes or pulling at their jewellery.鈥
But the tricky thing with this kind of behavioural expressions, says Jacqui, is that they could be part of that person's normal demeanour. So someone might just have an itchy nose, or maybe they鈥檙e worried about having something in their teeth and instinctively cover their mouth.
Listen carefully
Active listening is another good tool. Jacqui explains that bluffers may take longer to start answering a question, and may talk more slowly as they try to think about their answer.
鈥淭hey tend to have more grammatical errors and to 鈥渦mm鈥 and 鈥渆rr鈥 - that鈥檚 all to try and slow down, so they鈥檝e more time to think.鈥
Moreover, when people are trying to deceive, they may not use words like 鈥榚xcept鈥 or 鈥榖ut鈥, as they may try to keep it simple and not get caught out with embellishment or a further layer of complexity. According to Jacqui, using more negative words may also betray an underlying sense of unease.
Sometimes the person鈥檚 emotional expression might not match up with what they鈥檙e saying. For example, says Jacqui, they may be smiling while saying something sad because of the embarrassment at making it up - it鈥檚 almost like the body is lying as well.
But remember, this is not a science, and there are many reasons why someone may take a bit longer to formulate a thought or make grammar mistakes. Not everyone鈥檚 bluffing!
Discovering someone鈥檚 鈥榖aseline鈥
Does this mean we鈥檙e doomed to being deceived? Maybe not. Jacqui explains that being aware of someone鈥檚 regular behaviour can be the key to figuring out when they鈥檙e bluffing. The idea is that if you鈥檝e heard people telling stories that you know are true, it鈥檚 much easier to catch them out when they鈥檙e telling a lie.
鈥淲hen you think they might be bluffing,鈥 she says, 鈥渟ee if they can tell you more. It鈥檚 quite difficult for them to come up with more detail in case something catches them out.
鈥淎lso, ask unexpected questions - or get them to tell the story in reverse! If they鈥檝e really experienced the events they're talking about, it will be no problem to start at the end. When you鈥檙e telling a lie, it鈥檚 much harder.鈥
It goes without saying that this works both ways 鈥 those who know you really well will probably be very well placed for calling your bluff!
This article was published in November 2022
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