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Key points about describing relationships

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  • used with are often used to describe relationships with others.

  • usually start with the relative pronoun qui and can be used to develop more complex sentences.

  • This guide contains reading and listening practice.

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Vocabulary 鈥 Describing relationships with others

Useful verbs to describe relationships with others include:

FrenchEnglish
补尘茅濒颈辞谤别谤to improve
communiquer to communicate
comprendreto understand
discuter deto discuss, talk about
茅肠辞耻迟别谤to listen
蝉鈥檈ntendre avecto get along with
parlerto speak, talk
partagerto share
se 蝉茅辫补谤别rto break up
supporterto tolerate, bear, put up with

For example:

Je 尘鈥檈ntends bien avec ma ni猫ce. - I get on well with my niece.

Je ne supporte pas mon fr猫re. - I can鈥檛 bear my brother.

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Useful verbs for describing relationships include the reflexive verb 's'entendre avec' (to get on with)
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Grammar - Using reflexive verbs

that describe relationships with other people are often reflexive.

Reflexive verbs have to include a reflexive pronoun, which changes depending on who is doing the action.

You can identify reflexive in French as they are preceded by the reflexive pronoun鈥se or 蝉鈥鈥痠f the next letter is a vowel or silent h.

For example:

  • se ressembler 脿 - to look like

  • 蝉鈥檃ppeler - to be called

How to conjugate reflexive verbs with reflexive pronouns

Have a look at the conjugation of the reflexive verb se 蝉茅辫补谤别r鈥(to break up, to split up) in the singular:

Subject pronounReflexive pronounConjugated verb formEnglish
jeme蝉茅辫补谤别I am breaking up
tute蝉茅辫补谤别you are breaking up (singular, informal)
ilse蝉茅辫补谤别he/it is breaking up
ellese蝉茅辫补谤别she/it is breaking up
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Verbs which describe relationships with other people are often reflexive including 'se 蝉茅辫补谤别r' (to separate)

For example:

Il va se 蝉茅辫补谤别r de son petit ami. - He is going to break up with his boyfriend.

C鈥檈st fini ! On se 蝉茅辫补谤别 ! - I迟鈥檚 over! We are breaking up!

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Verbs which describe relationships with other people are often reflexive including 'se 蝉茅辫补谤别r' (to separate)

When a reflexive verb starts with a vowel or a silent h, the reflexive pronoun before it is shortened:

  • me鈥痓别肠辞尘别蝉鈥尘鈥

  • te鈥痓别肠辞尘别蝉鈥迟鈥

  • se鈥痓别肠辞尘别蝉鈥蝉鈥

Have a look at how to conjugate the verb 鈥蝉鈥檈ntendre (avec),鈥痬eaning 鈥榯o get on (with)':

Verb formEnglish
je 尘鈥檈ntends (avec)I get on (with)
tu 迟鈥檈ntends (avec)you (singular, informal) get on (with)
il 蝉鈥檈ntend (avec)he gets on (with)
elle 蝉鈥檈ntends (avec)she gets on (with)
on 蝉鈥檈ntends (avec)one gets on (with) / we get on (with)
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Reflexive pronouns - Mini quiz

Press Start to choose the correct word to complete the following sentences:

Find out more about reflexive verbs and pronouns in the Present tense reflexive verbs in French guide.

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Reading practice

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Young people have written about their relationship with family members

Read these messages on an online forum about family relationships and answer the questions below.

滨苍猫蝉

Mes parents se sont s茅par茅s r茅cemment et je ne comprends pas pourquoi. On ne parle pas beaucoup mais je 尘鈥檈ntends bien avec ma s艙ur.

Charlie

Ma relation avec mon fr猫re 蝉鈥檈st amelior茅e ces dernier jours. On partage une chambre maintenant et on discute de sport toute la nuit.

Ahmed

Je 尘鈥檈ntends assez bien avec mon beau-p猫re. Il 茅coute mes soucis et on ne se dispute jamais dans ma famille.

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Young people have written about their relationship with family members
  1. Who shares a bedroom with a family member?

  1. Who doesn鈥檛 talk to their parents much?

  1. Who says they never argue in their family?

  1. Who gets on quite well with their step-parent?

  1. Who has a family relationship that has improved recently?

  1. Who has parents who have separated?

Click or tap on Show more to see the translations of what 滨苍猫蝉, Charlie and Ahmed have said.

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Vocabulary - Useful adjectives to use when describing relationships

Positive adjectives

Useful adjectives to use when explaining why you might get along well with certain people include:

FrenchEnglishFrenchEnglish
补驳谤茅补产濒别pleasant, nice, agreeableheureux/heureusehappy
amusant(e)funny, fun, amusingparfait(e)perfect
calmecalm, quietpositif/positivepositive
诲谤么濒别funnyprocheclose
驳茅苍颈补濒(别)great, brilliant蝉茅谤颈别耻虫/蝉茅谤颈别耻蝉别conscientious, responsible
gentil / gentillekindsympatique (sympa)nice, kind, friendly

For example:

Je partage mes probl猫mes avec ma tante car on est tr猫s proches. - I share my problems with my aunt because we are very close.

Negative adjectives

Useful adjectives to use when explaining why you might not get along with certain people include:

FrenchEnglish
affreux / affreusedreadful, horrible, awful
茅驳辞茂蝉迟别selfish
别尘产锚迟补苍迟(别)annoying
ennuyeux / ennuyeuseboring
尘茅肠丑补苍迟(别)nasty, naughty, mean
strict(e)strict

For example:

Je ne comprends pas ma s艙ur parce qu鈥檈lle est vraiment 茅驳辞茂蝉迟别. - I don鈥檛 understand my sister because she is really selfish.

All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Some French words are 鈥榝alse friend蝉鈥. This means that they look like an English word but have a different meaning.

For example, the French word sympathique means 鈥榥ice鈥, not 鈥榮ympathetic鈥.

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Grammar 鈥 How to use the relative pronoun 鈥榪ui鈥 in French

The relative pronoun means 鈥榳ho鈥, 鈥榳ho尘鈥, 鈥榳hich鈥 or 鈥榯ha迟鈥 and is usually used at the start of a relative clause.

A relative clause is a clause that cannot exist by itself.

For example, in the sentence 'I really enjoyed the meal that I ordered', the relative clause is 鈥榯hat I ordered鈥, which wouldn鈥檛 make sense on its own.

Qui comes before a verb and relates to the subject of that verb.

For example:

J鈥檃i un fr猫re qui 蝉鈥檃ppelle John. 鈥 I have a brother who is called John.

C鈥檈st une situation qui est un peu difficile. 鈥 I迟鈥檚 a situation which is a bit difficult.

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Using qui to introduce a relative clause is a good way to develop more complex sentences.

The relative pronoun 鈥榪ui鈥 鈥 Mini quiz

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Translate the following sentences into English:

J鈥檃i une tante qui est un peu stricte.

Il y a des livres qui sont assez int茅ressants.

C鈥檈st quelqu鈥檜n avec qui je peux parler.

Find out more about the relative pronoun qui in the Relative pronouns in French guide.

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Listening practice

Press Start to listen to a podcast where four teenagers are talking about their relationships.

For each person, choose whether the relationship being discussed is positive, negative or both positive and negative.

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Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.

Useful vocabulary - Describing relationships
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Higher Tier 鈥 Vocabulary 鈥 Describing relationships

Useful verbs to use when talking about relationships with others include:

FrenchEnglish
avoir de bons rapports avecto have a good relationship with
avoir un mauvais rapport avecto have a bad relationship with
critiquerto criticise
se disputerto argue
respecterto respect

For example:

Je me dispute parfois avec mes amis. - I sometimes argue with my friends.

Useful adjectives to use when talking about relationships with others include:

FrenchEnglish
patient(e)patient
sensiblesensitive

All vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Remember

Some French words are 鈥榝alse friend蝉鈥 meaning they look like an English word but have a different meaning.

For example, sensible in French means 鈥榮ensitive鈥, not 鈥榮ensible鈥.

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Higher Tier - Grammar - Plural reflexive pronouns

Here is the full conjugation of the reflexive verb se disputer (to argue), including the nous, vous, ils and elles forms:

Subject pronounReflexive pronounConjugated verb formEnglish
jemedisputeI argue
tutedisputesyou argue (singular, informal)
ilsedisputehe/it argues
ellesedisputeshe/it is argues
onsedisputeone argues/we argue
nousnousdisputonswe argue
vousvousdisputexyou argue (singular formal or plural)
ilssedisputentthey argue (masculine or mixed)
ellessedisputentthey argue (feminine)

For example:

Elles se disputent tout le temps. 鈥 They argue all the time.

Tu te disputes avec tes parents ? 鈥 Do you argue with your parents?

Reciprocal verbs

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Reciprocal verbs include 'se parler', meaning 'to talk to each other'

鈥痑re used when the action of the verb is exchanged between two or more subjects. They also use a reflexive pronoun.

For example, the verb parler means 鈥榯o talk鈥 but se parler means 鈥榯o talk to each other鈥.

Vous vous parlez tous les jours. 鈥 You talk to each other every day.

The verb respecter means 鈥榯o respec迟鈥 but se respecter means 鈥榯o respect each other鈥.

Ils se respectent. 鈥 They respect each other.

Find out more about reciprocal verbs in the Present tense reflexive verbs in French guide.

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Reciprocal verbs include 'se parler', meaning 'to talk to each other'
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The relative pronoun 鈥榪ue鈥

When used as a relative pronoun, que means 鈥榳ho鈥, 鈥榳ho尘鈥, 鈥榳hich鈥 or 鈥榯ha迟鈥 and is usually used at the start of a relative clause.

Que comes before a noun or pronoun and relates to the object of the verb.

For example:

Les probl猫mes que j鈥檃i ne sont pas graves. 鈥 The problems that I have aren鈥檛 serious.

La fille que mon fr猫re a rencontr茅 茅tait tr猫s sympa. 鈥 The girl鈥who鈥痬y brother met was really nice.

Find out more about using que in the Relative pronouns in French guide.

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Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful Higher Tier vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.

Higher Tier - Useful vocabulary - Describing relationships
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