Key points about describing relationships
reflexive verb Verbs where the action is done to the same person who is doing it, eg se laver (to wash oneself). used with reflexive pronounA pronoun used with a reflexive verb, for example myself, yourself and himself. are often used to describe relationships with others.
relative clause A relative clause is a clause that cannot exist by itself. usually start with the relative pronoun qui and can be used to develop more complex sentences.
Vocabulary 鈥 Describing relationships with others
Useful verbs to describe relationships with others include:
French | English |
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补尘茅濒颈辞谤别谤 | to improve |
communiquer | to communicate |
comprendre | to understand |
discuter de | to discuss, talk about |
茅肠辞耻迟别谤 | to listen |
蝉鈥檈ntendre avec | to get along with |
parler | to speak, talk |
partager | to share |
se 蝉茅辫补谤别r | to break up |
supporter | to tolerate, bear, put up with |
For example:
Je 尘鈥檈ntends bien avec ma ni猫ce. - I get on well with my niece.
Je ne supporte pas mon fr猫re. - I can鈥檛 bear my brother.
Grammar - Using reflexive verbs
verbA word used to describe an action or state of being. that describe relationships with other people are often reflexive.
Reflexive verbs have to include a reflexive pronoun, which changes depending on who is doing the action.
You can identify reflexive infinitiveThe basic form of the verb. In French, all infinitives end in '-er', '-ir' or '-re'. in French as they are preceded by the reflexive pronoun鈥se or 蝉鈥鈥痠f the next letter is a vowel or silent h.
For example:
se ressembler 脿 - to look like
蝉鈥檃ppeler - to be called
How to conjugate reflexive verbs with reflexive pronouns
Have a look at the conjugation of the reflexive verb se 蝉茅辫补谤别r鈥(to break up, to split up) in the singular:
Subject pronoun | Reflexive pronoun | Conjugated verb form | English |
---|---|---|---|
je | me | 蝉茅辫补谤别 | I am breaking up |
tu | te | 蝉茅辫补谤别 | you are breaking up (singular, informal) |
il | se | 蝉茅辫补谤别 | he/it is breaking up |
elle | se | 蝉茅辫补谤别 | she/it is breaking up |
For example:
Il va se 蝉茅辫补谤别r de son petit ami. - He is going to break up with his boyfriend.
C鈥檈st fini ! On se 蝉茅辫补谤别 ! - I迟鈥檚 over! We are breaking up!
When a reflexive verb starts with a vowel or a silent h, the reflexive pronoun before it is shortened:
me鈥痓别肠辞尘别蝉鈥尘鈥
te鈥痓别肠辞尘别蝉鈥迟鈥
se鈥痓别肠辞尘别蝉鈥蝉鈥
Have a look at how to conjugate the verb 鈥蝉鈥檈ntendre (avec),鈥痬eaning 鈥榯o get on (with)':
Verb form | English |
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je 尘鈥檈ntends (avec) | I get on (with) |
tu 迟鈥檈ntends (avec) | you (singular, informal) get on (with) |
il 蝉鈥檈ntend (avec) | he gets on (with) |
elle 蝉鈥檈ntends (avec) | she gets on (with) |
on 蝉鈥檈ntends (avec) | one gets on (with) / we get on (with) |
Reflexive pronouns - Mini quiz
Press Start to choose the correct word to complete the following sentences:
Find out more about reflexive verbs and pronouns in the Present tense reflexive verbs in French guide.
Reading practice
Read these messages on an online forum about family relationships and answer the questions below.
滨苍猫蝉
Mes parents se sont s茅par茅s r茅cemment et je ne comprends pas pourquoi. On ne parle pas beaucoup mais je 尘鈥檈ntends bien avec ma s艙ur.
Charlie
Ma relation avec mon fr猫re 蝉鈥檈st amelior茅e ces dernier jours. On partage une chambre maintenant et on discute de sport toute la nuit.
Ahmed
Je 尘鈥檈ntends assez bien avec mon beau-p猫re. Il 茅coute mes soucis et on ne se dispute jamais dans ma famille.
- Who shares a bedroom with a family member?
Charlie
- Who doesn鈥檛 talk to their parents much?
滨苍猫蝉
- Who says they never argue in their family?
Ahmed
- Who gets on quite well with their step-parent?
Ahmed
- Who has a family relationship that has improved recently?
Charlie
- Who has parents who have separated?
滨苍猫蝉
Click or tap on Show more to see the translations of what 滨苍猫蝉, Charlie and Ahmed have said.
滨苍猫蝉
Mes parents se sont s茅par茅s r茅cemment et je ne comprends pas pourquoi. On ne parle pas beaucoup mais je 尘鈥檈ntends bien avec ma s艙ur.
My parents have recently separated and I do not understand why. We don鈥檛 speak much but I get on well with my sister.
Charlie
Ma relation avec mon fr猫re 蝉鈥檈st amelior茅e ces dernier jours. On partage une chambre maintenant et on discute de sport toute la nuit.
My relationship with my brother has got better recently. We share a room now and we talk about sport all night.
Ahmed
Je 尘鈥檈ntends assez bien avec mon beau-p猫re. Il 茅coute mes soucis et on ne se dispute jamais dans ma famille.
I get on quite well with my stepdad. He listens to my worries and we never argue in my family.
Vocabulary - Useful adjectives to use when describing relationships
Positive adjectives
Useful adjectives to use when explaining why you might get along well with certain people include:
French | English | French | English |
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补驳谤茅补产濒别 | pleasant, nice, agreeable | heureux/heureuse | happy |
amusant(e) | funny, fun, amusing | parfait(e) | perfect |
calme | calm, quiet | positif/positive | positive |
诲谤么濒别 | funny | proche | close |
驳茅苍颈补濒(别) | great, brilliant | 蝉茅谤颈别耻虫/蝉茅谤颈别耻蝉别 | conscientious, responsible |
gentil / gentille | kind | sympatique (sympa) | nice, kind, friendly |
For example:
Je partage mes probl猫mes avec ma tante car on est tr猫s proches. - I share my problems with my aunt because we are very close.
Negative adjectives
Useful adjectives to use when explaining why you might not get along with certain people include:
French | English |
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affreux / affreuse | dreadful, horrible, awful |
茅驳辞茂蝉迟别 | selfish |
别尘产锚迟补苍迟(别) | annoying |
ennuyeux / ennuyeuse | boring |
尘茅肠丑补苍迟(别) | nasty, naughty, mean |
strict(e) | strict |
For example:
Je ne comprends pas ma s艙ur parce qu鈥檈lle est vraiment 茅驳辞茂蝉迟别. - I don鈥檛 understand my sister because she is really selfish.
All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.
Remember
Some French words are 鈥榝alse friend蝉鈥. This means that they look like an English word but have a different meaning.
For example, the French word sympathique means 鈥榥ice鈥, not 鈥榮ympathetic鈥.
Grammar 鈥 How to use the relative pronoun 鈥榪ui鈥 in French
The relative pronoun Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. means 鈥榳ho鈥, 鈥榳ho尘鈥, 鈥榳hich鈥 or 鈥榯ha迟鈥 and is usually used at the start of a relative clause.
A relative clause is a clause that cannot exist by itself.
For example, in the sentence 'I really enjoyed the meal that I ordered', the relative clause is 鈥榯hat I ordered鈥, which wouldn鈥檛 make sense on its own.
Qui comes before a verb and relates to the subject of that verb.
For example:
J鈥檃i un fr猫re qui 蝉鈥檃ppelle John. 鈥 I have a brother who is called John.
C鈥檈st une situation qui est un peu difficile. 鈥 I迟鈥檚 a situation which is a bit difficult.
Using qui to introduce a relative clause is a good way to develop more complex sentences.
The relative pronoun 鈥榪ui鈥 鈥 Mini quiz
Translate the following sentences into English:
J鈥檃i une tante qui est un peu stricte.
I have an aunt who is a bit strict.
Il y a des livres qui sont assez int茅ressants.
There are some books which/that are quite interesting.
C鈥檈st quelqu鈥檜n avec qui je peux parler.
I迟鈥檚 someone with whom I can talk./I迟鈥檚 someone who I can talk to.
Find out more about the relative pronoun qui in the Relative pronouns in French guide.
Listening practice
Press Start to listen to a podcast where four teenagers are talking about their relationships.
For each person, choose whether the relationship being discussed is positive, negative or both positive and negative.
Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.
Higher Tier 鈥 Vocabulary 鈥 Describing relationships
Useful verbs to use when talking about relationships with others include:
French | English |
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avoir de bons rapports avec | to have a good relationship with |
avoir un mauvais rapport avec | to have a bad relationship with |
critiquer | to criticise |
se disputer | to argue |
respecter | to respect |
For example:
Je me dispute parfois avec mes amis. - I sometimes argue with my friends.
Useful adjectives to use when talking about relationships with others include:
French | English |
---|---|
patient(e) | patient |
sensible | sensitive |
All vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.
Remember
Some French words are 鈥榝alse friend蝉鈥 meaning they look like an English word but have a different meaning.
For example, sensible in French means 鈥榮ensitive鈥, not 鈥榮ensible鈥.
Higher Tier - Grammar - Plural reflexive pronouns
Here is the full conjugation of the reflexive verb se disputer (to argue), including the nous, vous, ils and elles forms:
Subject pronoun | Reflexive pronoun | Conjugated verb form | English |
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je | me | dispute | I argue |
tu | te | disputes | you argue (singular, informal) |
il | se | dispute | he/it argues |
elle | se | dispute | she/it is argues |
on | se | dispute | one argues/we argue |
nous | nous | disputons | we argue |
vous | vous | disputex | you argue (singular formal or plural) |
ils | se | disputent | they argue (masculine or mixed) |
elles | se | disputent | they argue (feminine) |
For example:
Elles se disputent tout le temps. 鈥 They argue all the time.
Tu te disputes avec tes parents ? 鈥 Do you argue with your parents?
Reciprocal verbs
reciprocal verbsReciprocal verbs have a subject pronoun and a corresponding reflexive pronoun. They show that the action of the verb is exchanged between two or more subjects. 鈥楨ach other鈥 is usually used in the English translation. 鈥痑re used when the action of the verb is exchanged between two or more subjects. They also use a reflexive pronoun.
For example, the verb parler means 鈥榯o talk鈥 but se parler means 鈥榯o talk to each other鈥.
Vous vous parlez tous les jours. 鈥 You talk to each other every day.
The verb respecter means 鈥榯o respec迟鈥 but se respecter means 鈥榯o respect each other鈥.
Ils se respectent. 鈥 They respect each other.
Find out more about reciprocal verbs in the Present tense reflexive verbs in French guide.
The relative pronoun 鈥榪ue鈥
When used as a relative pronoun, que means 鈥榳ho鈥, 鈥榳ho尘鈥, 鈥榳hich鈥 or 鈥榯ha迟鈥 and is usually used at the start of a relative clause.
Que comes before a noun or pronoun and relates to the object of the verb.
For example:
Les probl猫mes que j鈥檃i ne sont pas graves. 鈥 The problems that I have aren鈥檛 serious.
La fille que mon fr猫re a rencontr茅 茅tait tr猫s sympa. 鈥 The girl鈥who鈥痬y brother met was really nice.
Find out more about using que in the Relative pronouns in French guide.
Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful Higher Tier vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.
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