May I defend myself
Perfect timing as always, it’s my turn to do the blog.
May I begin with a message: Happy Birthday Emile!
For those who may have not heard this morning’s show, Emile is my boyfriend, whom I love very much. I think things are good, the team do not, and I must admit, after the scenario was played out on air to me and the listeners by Chris it did sound pretty bad.
I’m now in a dilemma, I’d like to clarify my situation – because I know I’m not a bad person, and I don’t think I’m a bad boyfriend so surely if I spelt it out correctly everything will be right! No? The problem of course is that I might be digging myself in deeper with every extra word I say to defend myself!
Can I assure you that things are very good between us. I’ve been asked to do a naked photo for a magazine on Thursday. Seeing as I only had 6 days of notice I’m panicking about how good / bad I look and Emile is very much in agreement that he wants me to look good too (it’s kinda in his interest also).
For his birthday (as a notoriously bad cook) I’ve offered to go to as much effort as possible to cook him a nice dinner, he preferred that I did it after my photo so that I can eat it with him and relax.
As for tonight, my gym buddies are these twins that I call the Abercrombie twins:
They’re working in Cardiff tomorrow and Wednesday so tonight is our last night we can do a last minute training. THAT is why on my boyfriend’s birthday I’m starting the evening in the gym with the twins.
I will still see him after the gym, I’ll just be a little more toned ready for Thursday.
The boyf says he’s happy with this, I hope I’ve explained it better now!
Aled
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WOW ,,I NEED TO GO TO THE GYM??
CAN I BORROW THE TWINS ,,I PROMISE I WILL HAVE THEM BACK TO YOU AS SOON ?
(I MAY KEEP THEM FOR A WHILE!!!)
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emile looks so much nicer than those twins- put him first ,if only on his birthday. if you want to keep him put him first every day? Or he may go after one of the twins- still you could have one each!
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Aled - you're getting too thin! I've been there, done that so know you won't take any notice of this comment, but you looked better with a bit more flesh on your bones.
Enjoy your skinny phase, but I look forward to the previous Aled returning before too long.
Hugs n Kisses
Helen & Gail
Carlisle
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hi aled, i jus love to say i think ur great an i always feel sorry for you when chris pouts you down have a nice day now xx
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Aled - you really need to give your head a shake! It seems your messing your poor bf around and he must be annoyed. You need to sort out who your number one is - him or you?
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aled. dear dear aled..... only you and your bf know truly wot has been arranged. dont let that big nasty chris moyles make u feel bad. we all have pre-arranged plans. and sometimes important dates have to be celebrated on different days. you have not forgotten your bf s birthday unlike most men. your just going to have fun later on in the week where you can give emile all your attention and not be distrated by your photo shots. so dont worry we all still love you.... and you as well chris
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I think you need to calm down a smidge my little cherub. But it is quite a selfish and vain thing to do; go to the gym so that you can make sure YOU look good for YOUR photoshoot. Surely it's not about you, it's about your (rather cute) boyfriend and his birthday? I would be quite upset if my fella went off worrying all about himself and how hard done by he is when it was my birthday and I was the one being snubbed for the gym! Whether true or not it seems that Aled and Aled's appearance are what is top on the agenda.
Plus you're gorgeous so don't need to worry about your photoshoot!
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Hang on is this another Aled topic that involves vanity? - one day there might be a topic that involves Aled that is not about the way he looks - the only one I can think of is that he drowned in a canal after he fell in looking at his own reflection. One shudders to think what would happen if he were made of chocolate?
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Ive often thought that being gay would be a hell of alot easier, its so much easier to talk to blokes than it is women, theyre always so much more understanding and dont get irrational :p. Only problem would be the sex :s
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Those Twins are HOT!!!
x x x x
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Hi Aled. It sounds like you two have a great relationship and can discuss and agree what's important for you both before problems arise. Have a great day doing whatever it is you have planned on Friday.
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Mmmmm... I'd like to think they could tone me up a little too, not down the gym but thats a good alternative name for the bedroom!.... I hope your boyfriend aint too jealous as you know us girls normally mean the exact opposite to what we say!!!! Good Luck
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hey! there should be a contest til this is all sorted out! you guys could see if anyone wants to "Win a Meal with Emile!" eh?!
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Aled Ive fallen in love with you!
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OMG Aled wot on earth are you doing?!! you should be with your bf on his birthday.. I'm sure you can think of a few activities that will no doubt shed some pounds and make u work up a sweat! ; )
Really i would be gutted if i was ur bf... leaving me to be with the twins!!! you need to learn how to prioritise ur time!!!!!! tut-tut!!! I hope for ur next bday that your Emile decides he needs to go to the local library all night to renew his books...
xxxx Lou xxxx
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I think it was unfair to be ambushed like that.
There's nothing worse than being character assasinated, let alone on international radio!
It isn't anyone's business but Aled and Emile's.
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Happy birthday Emile!! I can see it from both side's, but if my boyfreind went to the gym with twins instead of spending it with me then I would be absolutely spitting feathers when he come home.
I accidently got tickets to see Motorhead on my boyfreinds birthday, and 8 years later it still get brought up.
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oh Aled, how good of you to select an accompanying photo for this blog where you most definately take center stage whilst your boyfriend asks "is it okay if I appear as well a little tiny bit with you, superstar Aled person?" :)
Hilarious show today, by the way
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Happy Birthday Emile! Aww, ain't you cute together!!
I think it all sounds fine to me Aled, kind of....!
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Aled
U bad bad bad boy!
treat him mean to keep them keen??
is that how your parents brought you up to treat people you "love".
shame on you.
and ps, naked photoshoot? cmon its going to take more than 6 days to make your scrawny welsh body look hot! altho, you can learn a lot about photoshop in 2 days!! hint hint
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Aww bless you Aled, I'm very glad (as a Radio1 listener) that all is well between you and your beloved, though I must admit the whole thing was quite amusing to listen to this morning. Hope the shoot goes well, sure it will, and say hi to the rest of the team (even though none of you know me) and big shout out to all my friends and family.
Heather Wong, Hereford
xx
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Protesting too much....?
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please tell me these twins are straight and single
yum yum
Oh and Aled chill...
xxxxxxxxxx
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Aled Aled Aled.
Knowing the Food thing so well I can sympathise with your dilema. But let me, let you into a secret..........YOU LOOK GOOD !!!
and will look good even if you eat between now and thursday. I would do both things in fact do as much as you can, always. life is too short. love love love. Be happy ;0)
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Hi aled, think ur not a bad bf jus too self concious, dnt worry bout the photo shoot, although u do kno if your not in physical perfection for thursday now 3 days will make no difference to your appearence, so quite a dilemma,
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